Professional Dominatrix | Smiling Sadist | Filthy Pervert | Pleasure Addict

Mardi Gras!

That’s right, gay christmas is here again! My favourite time of year is upon us, with all of the glitter and naked, sweaty flesh you can wish for in any holiday. I am busy with rehearsals several evenings a week at the moment so don’t get too upset if...

Quick Update and Happy New Year!

A very happy new year to all of My lovelies, where ever in the world you may be! Melbourne was a blast! New Zealand was incredible! I can’t wait to show you the rest of the photos from the leather shoot and let you in on a few little plans I’m making this...

Douche of the Week #4

  This douche is a long-running one-sided conversation that had actually been mercifully silent until recently. I’m fairly sure that he has never read My website, never read My blog and probably never considered My (one and only) response. 19 December 2011...

To Become a Mistress

I often get asked “How did You become a Mistress?”. This post is a response to this question, and to the questions I’ve been getting lately regarding training other women to be professional Dominatrices. The short answer is that I picked up My phone...

Douche of the Week #3

This is the second communique in what is sure to be a short-lived and unsatisfied email exchange and it was just so sterling that I’ve put it up within hours of receiving it Myself. Which brings Me around to the subject of etiquette. There is no etiquette page...

Homework from a slave

A little while ago, I set some homework for a currently-long-distance slave of Mine. It’s just a little essay on something that I thought was interesting and possibly a little familiar for those of us that work in the white collar world. “It is better to...

Douche of the Week #2

This “week’s” Douche was a twitter contributor with possibly the daftest conversation I’ve had in a while. While I love what a marvellous world the Internet has opened up for kinksters all over the world, it really does reinforce the idea that...

Financial Domination

Misunderstood, misrepresented and righteously lambasted by Dominants and submissives alike, financial domination occupies a very sensitive sphere in modern kink. A good many kinksters refuse to recognise its legitimacy as a fetish – a bit silly really given that...

Douche of the Week #1

I’m going to have to make this post a weekly occurrence. Tuesdays at 2 sounds about right. I routinely receive emails that give Me grave concern over the future of humanity. Anyone acquainted with Me knows how pedantic I can be about spelling, grammar and...

The Gathering, Sydney 2012

It was a few weeks ago now, but I did have a fabulous weekend at the Gathering. Catching up with some of My favourite interstate Dommes, and meeting new friends. I split My weekend  pass with a good friend and attended Mistress Tara’s cbt workshop, followed by...