Misunderstood, misrepresented and righteously lambasted by Dominants and submissives alike, financial domination occupies a very sensitive sphere in modern kink.
A good many kinksters refuse to recognise its legitimacy as a fetish – a bit silly really given that money does induce a near-sensual desire in some people & it is easy to see how the gain or loss of money, like power, can be eroticised by both D & s.
Financial domination does not necessarily mean “Give Me all your money, you worthless pig”, though it could, and for some it does. In many vanilla hetero-normative relationships, one partner makes the majority of the financial decisions for the household. Financial domination recognises and celebrates the power exchange symbolised through the ritual exchange of funds.
If you harbour fantasies of servicing this Mistress financially, I strongly suggest that you read the details below.
- I will need your personal details: name, living situation, mobile and alternative forms of contact, employment details.
- I will require you to complete a budget: your current expenses, spending habits, rent, food, utilities, mortgage, clothes, entertainment, savings. Average your expenditures over a month, per week.
- I will not call you a pig, cash cow, paypet or atm. You will not be directed to pay My personal bills.
- You will be required to donate a certain amount to a charity of My choosing and furnish Me with a receipt at each and every paycheck.
- I will direct you to save specific amounts from each paycheck and I will direct you how to spend the sum that you have saved.
Financial service has a 3 month probationary contract. This gives Me time to decide whether you are suited to service. Should you pass probation successfully, you will then be able to negotiate a contract extension for 6 months at a time.
If you’d like to contribute to Mistress but are not ready to commit to a timeframe, you are welcome to donate to one of My personal goals:
- I like to travel and if you’d like to see Me in your city then Flight Centre gift cards are the perfect way to entice Me.
- Donate to one of the charities that I support: Red Cross, Amnesty International, ACON
- If you just want to surprise or spoil Me, you can send Me an Amazon gift card (direct giftcards to firstname.lastname@example.org) or buy something from My wishlist